Friday, May 22, 2009

Please Excuse my French


And everytime I tell myself, I'll give u a chance to do the right thing....u go a head and fuck it up.





Wats more pathetic than a man w/out a plan?  A girl who thinks  She can change him

 
..........
 

Id rather die alone and in the cold, 
Than die in the bed with a man and all the lies he's told 

FML? 
No 
FYL! 

(its not that ur  a bad person....ur just not good for me)

Sigh. 

Happy Friday

(so I decided to just keep some key points and erase all the other stuff, since I'm getting hate mail from "anonymous" people...lol.)

But thanks for the kind words to everyone who got to read the full version :)
 

Live and let Live
Get what u give....
and Karma?
Yea, she's a bitch.....
So, Watch ya self kids ;)

25 comments:

noelle said...

amen... it b like that sometimes

Anonymous said...

this blog helped me. i wish you all the best.

accordingtoSTEPH said...

girl...you DID that! i'm so feeling you and i know what you're going through. sometimes you gotta let them have it and do you since they love to do them at ALL times. whew you make me wanna cuss mine out again lol

jskrill said...

dude needs to..

"stop TRY'NA be the man, and be a man".

PeaceLoveOpulence said...

Wow . . . deep i felt this 1nce before . . it only makes you stronger. TRUST & BELIEVE!!

Golda S said...

how about this.... Your smart, your beautiful, your young with a great future ahead of you. The only people that should be mad are the people that are slippling and letting a good thing pass them by. Please smile and be happy. Your a great person Jhene!

- Golda S

thefakefairy said...

real talk from a real person
sometimes you just gotta be real

Shantae said...

Sometimes you gotta learn to let go because some men just aren't worth holding on to no matter what keeps them bonded to you.

Besides, boys will be boys. Their simple, slow asses don't know how to be anything else.

iREFLECTasIsipMYhotcocoa said...

atleast you're able to let go. its so much better than being wrapped up and having to put up w/ it..

Anonymous said...

mannn u betta goo head!
THUG LIEEFFEE! lol but seriously
what i hate more than anything is when people write anonymously & talk shit like they know anything about your life...too funny. so sad and unfortunate that you have NOTHING better to do than to "butt" in and speak as though your opinion was needed/....BAHH!(BYE)
i love you jhene ur the greatest & i love the waay your mind works..

but please let this be theee last time & never get sucked back in.
you know the right thing to do..so remember to follow your heart!
holla

Soulstar said...

Through the strife comes strength, and through negativity comes wisdom. Embrace this trial as one of life's hard-learned lessons, and keep it moving for your daughter. Be blessed.

Peace,
Soulstar

Shandra E...*the misses said...

And the culmination of "HAD ENOUGH" is..."I'm DONE"!! I've been reading and waiting for the kettle to blow the lid off the steam pot & YOU LET IT GO!! girl KUDOS TO YOU...sometimes we boil only to get burned, but it seems like you're so fed up & I LOVE IT!!! You're doing what you have to do for you & anybody who aint YOU shouldn't have nothing to say, no reminders of "what they THINK they know, or what they heard"! SPAa! ;-o I laugh at frivilous small talk from haters...whether you steamed up or "calm, cool & collected", as long as you're being TRUE to yourself & what you feel is right for you/your child! do what you gotta do..

Jhene Aiko Efuru Chilombo said...

lol@ people who forget that this is MY blog and i can erase there comments ...lol......

that comment sounded personal to me!!

you mad?!

but thanks for the support!

i actually wrote it a couple days ago and i thought it was a good read :)

love u guys :)

jskrill said...

ur beautiful :)

Emme said...

Don't worry about comments from anonymous people. It took a lot strength to get to the point where you are right now. I appreciate you being strong, brave, and bold enough to share. Never settle for less than you know you're worth. You are so beautiful, smart, and talented. Any man would be lucky to have you. There is no need to stay with one who doesn't deserve you. I wish you enough. Enough strength, enough peace, enough courage, enough anything you need to get from where you are now to where you truly want to be.

ailani-yomeili said...

yea don't-worry about hate mail. hate mail comes from haters! and you know you have Plenty of them. you did what YOU had to do. In the end, it's YOU that matters-and Namiko of course! But, as said before 'many Blessings. keep your heart open and your head up.

virginia johnson said...

i read the original post
to me this seemed fitting

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dsQvXgCcng8as

keep ya head up girl , situations like this can only make u stronger.

Blossom said...

You're such a sweetie Nae :) If this is your boiling point, then you are truly an angel. God bless and I hope all works out in the best interest of you& your daughter.... and him... but he comes 3rd :)

Anonymous said...

I think u should put the whole thing back up cuz like u said its your blog you put what you want.. and i didnt get to read it lol

aikodoll said...

I read it last night but was unable to comment i think its great that you posted this and you need to put the rest back up fuck the hate mail and how they(haters)feel!!!I know you'll find a guy who will loves you and your baby as if it was his own....
P.S this shit goes hardddd!!lol

Davinna... said...

hey jhene...you're great, and so is your music! lol just thought i should say that..
you'll be alright = )

withlove__starz said...

man.. ppl R stupid!! i loved it how it was.. it was raw truth... its sad that a beautiful gift like talent... comes with a pack of haters. ... get a life... and if they dont respect yours... stay out of it... but im glad i got to read it for what it was. .. i appreciated it.

maj said...

love it. lol amongst every crowd theres a individuala that stans out without saying a word . u r that ur personality is dope ppl need get real like u && i if thry cant handle some bare truth they needa backbone

Amber-Renise said...

I wish I could have read all of it but for what is still there I can truely say that it helped me too , and sometimes people have to speak their mind and not worry about what people have to say .

PrincessJie said...

i loved the original. so much truth in it! it's your blog you shouldnt have to edit it for anyone.